Gosh - I remember those days, with both my kids - and I was involved in sports and other things as well. It really makes me wonder how I ever survived! Congrats to your daughter - it's a fabulous way to shape them as responsible and caring individuals - at least that's my opinion. Kudos to her and to Mom too for all you do!
So sorry to hear your mother's surgery didn't go as well as it could have. Sending out a prayer and big hugs to you both.